Lucky you! And you complain?
Just tell how to set it up for showing the birthday every day - that will be every kid's dream. And then set it up to show the same way in the parents and gf/bf/other calenars too
What time format do you use? US? Are both versions of iCal with the same regional settings? (those are from system preferences each so are both iMac and iPod Touch set to same region and settings?)