Sorry I didn't get to you sooner Cheryl.
We don't store any avatars on the server, so that's why none show.
I think this question would be better asked in the macosx.com cafe. Tons of people would be happy to help you there, and in fact would probably make you one if you threw out some ideas for people...
To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children...to leave the world a better place...to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded.
- Ralph Waldo Emerson