Death Threats, Spam, and Legit Mail Lists

ScottW

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Earlier today I sent out an email to our mail-list. I get a few unsubscribe requests, but they measure in the 1% of the list range. Usually no big deal. You can almost always count on someone who will write a 5 page report on spam and copy your mother, your network provider, upstream providers, the President and even your neighbor with their own "spam" reply.

Today was more interesting though. One member here who shall go nameless for the time being, I am still considering whether turning this into the authorities, but he responded with, "Send me mail again and I will personally come over there with a goddamn shotgun."

I will give the guy some credit here. He did follow the listserv instructions on removing himself and when he went to confirm the system rejected it, and thus his response above. What he didn't know is I had already saw a previous "bounce notice" from his email account and had already deleted his email from the list, which is why the system didn't accept his confirmation code.

However, all good intentions aside, his response should not be excused.

Here is my talking point here. The number of spam messages from "lists" vs those coming from legit lists like ours that users actually subscribe too and our system is a listserv which you can actually unsubscribe from can be overwhelming. It is hard to know who to take seriously. As a "savvy" internet user I know that systems which run on mail-list servers are usually automated and legit in the fact that when you unsubscribe, you really are unsubscribed.

Recently I took steps to make sure that people really want to be on the list. Before, it was just a checkbox as for the registration process built into this board. Plus, to get off the list, you had to log in, and to the control panel and unchecked the box and it wasn't the easiest. So, I migrated everyone over to the new listserv. All new registered users are asked via email to not only confirm their email address for registration to the board, but also a second email to confirm if they want to the join the mail-list. A pure opt-in type system that our Spam-Filters like SpamCop endorse and who's filters we run on our own server to filter out all the spam we get.

I feel like I sit on the middle of the fence. A) I understand that SPAM is evil, I hate it. I get probably 100+ emails a day in my personal email box that are spams. Thankfully, SpamAssassin catches most of them, a few it doesn't. That is where SpamCop and other RBL type lists come in and all work like an orchestra to filter out the spam.

However, I can not tell you the number of times I have sent out legitimate emails and not only do I get turned into spamcop, but then I get emails from my hosting provider, and my grandma on "here is this guys spam response". I mean... do some people have too much time on their hands, they just enjoy sending hateful, nasty messages to people. Are they so blinded by the amount of spam that they really don't take time to consider... "Hell, I registered as a user on that site and you know what... maybe I should talk to them about removing my name before I send out my evil phrases?"

In my experience, it is the people who are on these missions to destroy the spammer, are the exact same people who can't follow a simple direction as to "unsubscribe" from a legit email-list. :rolleyes:

I hate spam, but more than that, I hate people who spam 5 people with 3 pages of BS for each spam they get. Yea... spam sucks. But don't bother grandma, my neighbor and all the mail hop owners along the way.
 
Here is another response (I usually get one of these per mailling)...

The following unsolicited message originated from the domain macosx.com
apparently from an IP address owned by sprint.
EU law requires that explicit consent be obtained to use an individual's
email address. At no point when I registered at macosx.com did I agree
to receive unsolicited mail in a manner that is consistent with EU
regulations. Your decision to begin sending unsolicited mail to me is
therefore illegal. The opt-out clause embedded in the message is not
recognized by EU law.

Consent to send to me unsolicited mail is denied. You should also be
advised that EU law makes it strictly illegal to pass my email address on
to anyone for any reason except to complete a specific request by me.
Any further unsolicited mail from macosx.com, any of it's affiliates, or
any individual or organization you may have shared my email address with,
will result in legal action against you.

This message has been copied to the service provider who owns the IP
address where the message apparently originated so that they can
investigate if one of their customers is responbisble for this network abuse.

Great. You know what. This registered user, I went to check just to make sure, and YES, they did opt-in to the mail-list. The funny thing is... I am not in the EU, so take your EU law and shove it. Your law won't defend you against your own stupidity. In fact, just for grins I was going to give out your email address. But, I decided against it because I am nicer than you. I am sure my upstream providers are thankful you notified them of this very important information... JOHN.
 
lol, ok first off: why is this in the Cafe? Second off: people can be so stupid sometimes, why don't they learn? And the EU law won't effect you, so what was he thinking?
 
I can understand if someone might be annoyed at getting a message from a list he thought he unsubscribed to. Fairly recently, I was getting overloaded with emails from marketers for which I'd opted in, thinking something useful might show up (what a pipe dream that was), but one day I just decided, "That's it, I've had it, I'm unsubscribing to anything of this nature." And now I email calmly. But I can understand the annoyance if one of the services hadn't unsubscribed me.

However, the person's response was completely irrational. Email is not something over which one should commit felony. I am not going to go all the way to Kansas to shoot someone just because I got an email, and I don't know why anybody would want to spend the money to do so. (Like he knows your address, anyway.) You might choose to ignore it, you might choose to turn him in, and you might choose to explain all this in a letter (not an email... that would make it worse)... and hopefully he will understand.
 
If someone gets annoyed of the real SPAM the worst thing they can do is respond to the spammer.

But once someone subscrubes to a service .. a forum, an airline service online etc, .. they may _maybe_ send you an email once a twice a year? I do know that I get really, really annoyed of the emails that the services of iol.it, email.it, lastminute.com etc send, and to which I can't just unsubscribe, but this board? .. welll, too much itme in their hands. :eek:
 
It would be sweet revenge:)D) to forward his email making personal threats to his ISP and have his account terminated ::ha::

Let's see how his EU laws and ISP's AUP like that!
 
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