Yoshi,
Yep, I had to do a clean install of OSX. Luckily I didn't really have that much stuff on my machine...I did find out during the course of this debacle that Mac's CD Burner won't burn to a CD-R more than once! Guess I need to buy Toast. Also, I didn't install OS 9 at all...so we'll see how that works out for me.
I should probably install mysqladmin. I did figure out a way to modify the mysql database (the one that has all the users in it). Instead of gettting the mysql prompt by typing "mysql" (after starting the db server, of course) I type "sudo mysql" and am prompted for my admin password. Then I can add users, etc. till my heart's content.
<I figure you know this, Yoshi, it's for all the other folks banging their heads like me out there>
Anyway, I still fighting with permissions and such, and have taken a break from mysql for a few days...to much failure gets under my skin. I'll be back at it within a week, of course.
Thanks for taking the time to respond to all our Qs.
-Eric