I have a little problem

habilis

Ministry of Re-Education
I'm in love with my wife which is wonderful. But when her sister is around I can't take my eyes off her, she's a playboy-quality babe. I don't know how to stop. Help.
 
You probably can't stop: those little bastards of genes want you to mate with the biggest babe around. Nasty, selfish little buggers ... :D

Hey, real love is worth ten times sexual attraction. Be happy. ;)
If it becomes a problem, talk to your wife. If you really love each other it will do good to take it out into the open. Makes you both feel better, since your wife probably isn't blind either ... As long as you keep your mind (and hands) off her, let the eyes enjoy the view. :D
 
If you make a lot of money and have children (plural), just imagine what the child support payments would be like. You would be poor forever! Even if you're not well-to-do, the child support payments will still bankrupt you. To recap what dlloyd said, "Strength of Will".
 
Have a fling.

::ha::::ha::, just kidding! If your wife doesn't notice or doesn't say anything, don't worry about it. Like cat said, let your eyes enjoy the view... at least someone/something does. If your wife says anything, convince her that you love her and her only, and that her sister is *ahem* very good looking, and you can't help staring because you are a guy and that's what drives us.
 
have a threesome! :)
no, wouldnt recomend that. not when there are people you love involved. Trust me: it gets plenty messy (in a bad way)! :)
If they are sisters they cant be that different. give your wife a present. same kind of clothes that her sister usually wears.

and the most important rule of them all: do to others only what you would have them do to you. How would you feel if your wife were looking at your handsome brother (if you have one)? jepp. not so funny. :)

nah... i would probably still go for the threesome and let it all blow to pieces (have done that twice.). :D
 
Decado: How many threesomes have you had in your life anyway? [/highly personal questions]

habilis: Only act if it becomes a problem. If it does, you may want to seek counseling if you are unable to work through it (like marriage counseling).
 
Originally posted by Decado
have a threesome! :)
holy sh!t, don't do that to me.
Originally posted by Decado
...do to others only what you would have them do to you.
Amen brother


A lot of good points from everybody. but Yikes. :eek: I believe I would never betray my wife/best_friend or have some sort of hidden fling ::angel:: She's actually fine with me looking at other girls, but her sister, well, that's like a taboo(and probably why I think she's so damn flaming hot). Damnit...

::alien::
 
Well, imagining her in her underwear probably wouldn't help the situation any...
 
lol! interesting thread!
Anyway, I would be darn careful with watching her and believing that when your wife doesn'T say a thing, she didn't notice by now. Mostly women keep things in themselves until it over goes a certain threshold. And than you will know how much she really got bothered. Unfortunately it will be too late to solve anything than.
And as cat said: real love is much more worth than sexual attraction. Keep your eyes on your wife (who shouldn't look so much different than her sister! Right?)
 
Originally posted by arden
Well, imagining her in her underwear probably wouldn't help the situation any...
damn you arden.
Originally posted by Zammy-Sam
Keep your eyes on your wife (who shouldn't look so much different than her sister! Right?)
Yeah, my wife is cute too don't get me wrong, but to draw a comparison, my wife is like a JC Penny's catalog babe and her sister is a Victoria's Secret catalog babe. :D
 
Arden writes:
>Decado: How many threesomes have
> you had in your life anyway?

:D
Only two relationships that have been like that. The first one with two ex-girlfriends who both wanted to get together with me (yeah, i know. it was a disaster).
The second one didnt actually get that far. We were mostly looking at girls together and she picked up a few "to try them out".
but i got bored waiting for her to dump her boyfriend (we were seeing eachother behind his back), so i got another girlfriend who i am together with now (since about a month). Dont think she is bi-sexual, tho. :(
 
They say if you get nervous giving a presentation you should imagine everyone in their underwear, and that kind of just occurred to me... but that would only increase the problem, wouldn't it.
 
My advice to you: show us what she looks like. :D

No really, as long as you talk about it with your wife every now and again things should be fine. Maybe you shouldn't be around when the sister comes to visit. Whatever you have to do to keep things "clean."
 
chevy
So basically you choosed the wrong one ?
Nah I got the smart one, which can come in quite handy at times. ;)
binaryDigit
But I agree with Trip, show us some piccies so we can, uh, give you better advice, yeah, thats it.
hmm, yeah it's tempting but I think that might be breaching the standards of good taste, don't you think? heh. But if you want to see a pic of my wife, I already posted one in the Jasons Daily Pic post on page 3 here: http://www.macosx.com/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=30474&perpage=15&pagenumber=3 it's the 4th post down in black and white. The pic really doesn't do her justice though, as is the inherent problem with pics. And the other problem is I don't have any good pics of her sister. I gotta work on that. or not. you guys are gonna get me in trouble.
 
Habilis... I do empathize with you. I know so MUCH what you mean. Isn't that an everyday torture ? ;)

Have you seen this wonderful film called Frida ? It talks, at some stage, of such a situation. But please, don't act like they do in the film ! :eek:

I wish you good luck and recommend you just lock yourself somewhere in your place (the kitchen would be my own prison) and then swallow the key. Take anything you need to live with you - except your wife's sister, that is. :D
 
...damn those genes... :D

Habilis, if you cannot hold yourself it is probably because you don't want to... :rolleyes:

My question is: Did your wife's sis showed you any signs of attraction or it is just a one part show from you?

Cause if she never showed to you anything (and even if she did), you should better mind you own wife business :p :D

Then again I think your wife is pretty alright and you should love and care for her without even thinking about her sister... AT ALL... ::ha::

Like Adam, you took the bite at the Apple, didn't you? AND you have Eve as well... Back off, of anything more cause you will damn yourself in the end... Think of it this way, too: You may have other men (your bro, cuz, et al) dreaming about your wife... Or should I say, sweating about her? :rolleyes:

Command your genes soldier! NOW! :D ;)
 
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