Oh, can people stop with the crap analogies please!!
"So when Sony adds a new software feature to their TV sets that, say, controls volume automatically, should we all expect Sony to come out and update our three year old TVs with the same features?"
No, but we don't expect Apple to "come out" and update our iPods. We would just like them to make an update available online. If there was an easy way for us to make these upgrades to our TV sets (via a simple, automated, online upgrade), then I would expect them to make it available to us. Lots of devices you connect to you computer are upgradeable via downloads that either update the device firmware or the drivers for connecting to it.
"So when Adobe adds features to PhotoShop CS, all the PhotoShop 7 users start whining that they want the same features, too, right?"
No, because they can upgrade the software by buying new software, they don't have to buy a whole new computer (usually). I actually wouldn't mind paying to upgrade the software in my iPod. Also, the features Apple are adding are small tiny little things. It's not really worth buying a whole new iPod for the features they've added. With Photoshop, it generally is worth buying the new version, and if it wasn't, then people wouldn't buy it.
Also, there really is no point likening it to other things anyway. I mean, what a dumb excuse that is:
Q: Why don't Apple offer X
A: Well, because company A, B and C don't offer something similar in their vaguely similar markets either.
It's also a really rather childish excuse too:
Mum: Jimmy, why did you do that.
Jimmy: Because I saw Billy doing it!
Some of you really do just seem far too happy to except things being the way they are, and as you're Apple users that really suprises me. I started using Apple computers because I wasn't happy with the way things were - and I'd have thought many of you did so for the same reason.
No, Apple aren't "screwing" over users particularly, but that doesn't mean we shouldn't still kick up a fuss to try and make things better.