-Is there anyway to add recipients to an email alarm in iCal?
-- you can email yourself in iCal alarms. If you have multiple email addresses, you can choose which one to use. Enter your email address in your Address Book account for your name. then you can select which email address to use in iCal Alarms. It was not designed to send an email to others.
You could learn Automater - then launch that with iCal Alarms.
-When is Leopard coming out? Will it really come in October?