System Wide Activity Monitor Mac Help!!!!

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Ive got many system wide problems that none of the techs even here have a clue how to fix really, but someone on here once stated that Activity Monitor can be of some guidance for problems....for instance, some of my problems include the in-ability to use any other version of itunes except 4.7.1, whenever i boot up from login screen it takes a good 7-9 minutes for the finder to appear and in activity monitor when i open applications such as iPhoto, Help Viewer and Safari the ARD Agent becomes "Hung" as does the program...

This came up with the Hung ARD:
/ (/dev/disk0s3)
/dev/null
/dev/console
/dev/console
/ (/dev/disk0s3)
0x01561614 file struct, ty=0x3, op=0x3177f4
->0x014f4dc4
0x01560ccc file struct, ty=0x3, op=0x3177f4
/System/Library/CoreServices/ARD Agent.app/Contents/Resources/ARD Agent.rsrc
/System/Library/CoreServices/ARD Agent.app/Contents/Resources/English.lproj/Localized.rsrc
/System/Library/Frameworks/Carbon.framework/Versions/A/Frameworks/HIToolbox.framework/Versions/A/Resources/HIToolbox.rsrc
/System/Library/Frameworks/Carbon.framework/Versions/A/Frameworks/HIToolbox.framework/Versions/A/Resources/English.lproj/Localized.rsrc
/System/Library/Frameworks/ApplicationServices.framework/Versions/A/Frameworks/HIServices.framework/Versions/A/Resources/HIServices.rsrc
/System/Library/CoreServices/ARD Agent.app/Contents/Resources/ARD Agent.rsrc
/System/Library/CoreServices/ARD Agent.app/Contents/Resources/English.lproj/Localized.rsrc
->0x014f1ea8
->0x014f2d50
*:net-assistant
/var/tmp/SCDynamicStoreNotifyFileDescriptor-13571
0x01561b00 file struct, ty=0x4, op=0x3177dc
0x01561a70 file struct, ty=0x4, op=0x3177dc
0x015624d8 file struct, ty=0x4, op=0x3177dc
0x015612d8 file struct, ty=0x4, op=0x3177dc


Any Help would be worth more than you can imagine

 

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here is a shot (hope this works here)

 

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also the upper program becomes hung in opening it

 

[bobw]

Do you use Apple Remore Desktop (ARD)?

If not, turn it off in the Sharing PreferencePane. Quit the Process from Activity Monitor.

Trash the 'com.apple.RemoteDesktop.plist' file from user>library>preferences