win2k should have a telnet program built in; use that to connect to your OSX box. Once you're connected, you aren't using win2k anymore, you're using OSX (well, darwin really) so the commands aren't any different than they would be in a OSX terminal window: ps -aux will get a list of running processes, kill -9 (pid) will kill the process with the pid you give it. I'm not sure if you can use the open command to launch a graphical app, but you could kill it, then relaunch it back at the OSX box.