Simply put, I don't want other people in my family knowing who's connecting to my server. The legitimacy is that both myself (the host) and my friend (the person who will be connecting) don't want anyone ever knowing who is connecting. It's a paranoia/security thing that we're both concerned about.
Preferably I'd like it to not be known at all that I'm letting someone connect to me nor what they were doing. We're both pretty paranoid about people reading our files and if somebody else were to find any trace of us using these files or where they are located, that would really suck for us. Our things should remain private and I don't think it's very private if someone can get on and see exactly who's been connected at what time.