Talk to all the Mac users you can and have them also post back the almost same feedback to Apple. Trust me, I have personally seen this happen when enough people submit similar feedback.
Well, honestly, I don't have the time nor the energy for this kind of political activism. I spend that on other, more pressing political issues. If someone has to organize a full-blown grass-roots movement just to get Apple to pay attention to the user community's desires about a certain Finder feature, then I'd just rather program around the problems or obtain freeware or shareware that modifies this Finder behavior.
With my recently purchased MacBook Pro, I'm new to the Apple community. Up until now, I've spent a lot of time in the Unix world, and a lesser (but still significant) amount of time with Windows. Under Unix, there are two principal desktop systems, Gnome and KDE. Both are open source and both are attempting to create a powerful and useful desktop environment.
In general, KDE takes the approach that the users should get good, standard, useful functionality, and in addition, the capability to reconfigure almost everything on the desktop in a number of different ways that might deviate from the defaults. Each new release of KDE seems to have more features and more options for reconfiguring the desktop.
Gnome, on the other hand, is taking a different approach. They are trying to come up with a standard desktop that is only configurable in certain, restricted ways. Often, when a new version of Gnome comes out, capabilities that previously allowed users to configure certain aspects of the desktop are removed, and we are forced to live with more and more restrictions in this area, in the name of uniformity.
Over time, KDE has therefore been evolving into the desktop for "power users", and Gnome is being used more and more for users who are less technical.
Based on what I'm hearing here, it's starting to look to me like Apple is taking an approach closer to that of Gnome than that of KDE. If so, I find this sad.