Easier to reply like this than in bulk. Anyway...
mr. k said:
I also have been looking for a private college, not because of private versus public as much because the private schools almost always have nicer looking financial aid packages.
That's because private schools cost much more than public schools. You have to pay more, so you need more help.
I am getting lots of mail from college's all over (I think it's because of my psat scores), but so far not too many of them have piqued my interest. I am looking real hard at majoring in some type of physical design - architecture is something I am real interested right now.
You should see the stack of college-related info I got from my PSAT scores... oh wait, you can!
See the attachment... And, naturally, I ended up choosing none of them to attend.
So let's say I choose a small school - any advice for what I do then? I need to take all those bull standardized tests this spring. Any advice for how to study for them? Brush up basic math and get some real good vocab? Read a lot? Pick up one of those study books?
Those books are mostly about how to take the test. There's no real way to study for the material on tests like the SAT because it's more of what you know than material... does that make sense? The questions always change, and there are no gray areas where it could be this or that, so it's pretty pointless to get those books IMO.
I'd recommend taking Advanced Placement classes. Many schools let you use your AP exam scores to waive certain classes. I've been able to get out of 5 different classes with the 6 AP classes and tests I took over the years in high school (I don't need introductory psychology in college, so that score doesn't help me a lot).
How about how to go about getting scholarships? The way my family makes money it looks like we are dirt poor because neither of my parents has a true job, and on the FASFA it *should* look like my parents are raising three kids on peanuts, so how could they afford to contribute to my college education?
Yes, definitely. Look for scholarships, grants, and yes, even loans. You'll definitely need it if your parents aren't executives at medium- to large-scale businesses. There are a wide variety of scholarships out there; many are for niche students (Portuguese immigrants with less than 2 years of English, Hispanics working in agriculture, or other BS like that), but there are a number that would be perfect for you.
Just to wrap up, this is about where I am right now - I want an appealing private school within driving distance of my family, one where I could major in architecture, or at least take a few courses in it to see if I want to major in it. And I want nice dorms with a great cafeteria to boot.
So are you going to build this perfect school yourself?
Maybe staying closer to home then I originally thought wouldn't be such a bad idea?
It depends on how cool you are with your family. If you hate each other, get as far away from there as possible... if you have a good relationship, you wouldn't suffer from staying close to home (you might even benefit: I'm getting free room & board because I'm going to school in-town right now).
And what do you guys think about this - basically cutting my senior year at high school down to a class or two and the sports I play to earn a few college credits per semester and save some money on the basic courses I would have to take as a freshman?
I wouldn't recommend cutting your senior year too short. I know lots of people who only took 4 or 5 classes last year, but if you have your graduation requirements filled you should take either fun electives or challenging courses like AP to get you out of classes later. Whatever you do, you should let your schoolwork keep you busy so you don't get lazy; you'll have a tough time going from simple 2 no-brainer classes in high school to 4 or 5 tough college courses.
And schools like smart students. If you can do well in AP classes, that will make you look smarter than you might be... or make you look as smart as you are. And whatever you do, good luck.