
still drinking my first cup of coffee and watching the hockey game but i will quickly address the age misunderstanding.
first, i don't aproach any of this discussion in terms of right or wrong. at least not in absolute terms. there are only personal right and wrongs involved here.
i also was speaking to googolplex about age and to some extent vanguard. I don't have to assume their ages - i know them. iamnotmad was never included in that statement. iamnotmad - i apologize for any lack of clarity that allowed you to feel i was making assumptions about you.
And if i did not consider these two young men to have exceptional intelligence i would not bother to go into such depth attempting to explain myself to them. so far they have been very good debate opponents 99% of the time.
actually googolplex i was saying, not implying, that youth does carry an inherent naivity. It is as inescable for you as it was for me. It is certainly not 'wrong'. It is just the way things are. You cannot have more experience than your years allow you. I would guess, nay, I would hope, that some of the perceptions and perspectives you hold now will change as you go thru life. Developmental research supports this statement.
and googolplex there are some things that are so hard to put into words so that a person who has never been thru certain things can fully understand them because they require certain shared experience. I have never met a teenager who has been thru them yet. Things take on different dimensions when they move beyond the intellectual experience. I know you can approach the intellectual side with great skill. I am not sure there is a way for me to explain the emtional/experiential part adequatly. There are some things that the old and the young cannot see the same. It has always been that way and it always will. The best we old farts can do is plant the seeds of perceptions and hope for the best. I can only say that i see more things the way my father did now that i am older than i did while he was alive. (not that i agree with everything he tried to teach me, but i understand things much better now)
so to summarize, never be defensive about your age. It is yours to own with pride. It is not wrong but you may find as time goes by that the world is not just the way you see it now. There are also no absolute rights in either side of this discussion. Both perspectives have things that are correct and incorrect. The important thing is that we present both sides so that people can make informed choices and perhaps take a minute to think about the consequences of their actions. neither choice is faultless and without future implications that might have negative outcomes.
ok, so this wasn't so quickly, but it says a little of what i need to say.
