Thanks for all your help. It's pitiful to be so helpless on this, but I always had IT people to depend on before this job, and as a result I worried about design and never the workings of my Mac. I guess that's over....
Okay, on the back of my tower there only seems to be one place to plug in a monitor. There is the "port" (is that the term?) where the current monitor is plugged in, and right next to it, on its left, is another port, which is a different size and shape, so I'm assuming it's not a place to plug in a second monitor. The place the monitor is plugged into has 15 pins and is wider at the bottom than the top. The other place is oval with a small point at the top, looks like it has many, many pins and says "Rated 28V DC 4A Max. to its left. So, if I need a graphics card, what is it I need? Or is this another monitor port? I fso, I don't seem to have any cables that fit it, so do I just need an adaptor or....?