Dear macosx.com Therapist,
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Trip
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They said they'd call me, but have yet to. And I want to call them, but I was thinking...since they said they would, and they haven't...does that mean they're not interestd in our friendship anymore? Because I'm sure if I meant something to any of them they'd be like "Hey we should call Tanner and invite him over!" like on Friday night. But alas, they have yet to call. I'm hoping they'll call today.
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Sorry unix, I'm a guy, and i too am seeking the holy grail of the available female mac user (sigh).
Trip: Its only been a coupla days, don't read too much into it (if you haven't heard from them a couple of weeks from now you might be able to take it as a message). Reading too much into things is a BAD idea, and is something its easy to get caught up in (on which subject i think text messaging is one of the worst things that has ever happened to modern relationships- so few words, so many possible meanings...).
Also, remember some (though not all) women think the guy should do the phoning. I understand that you don't want to call too soon, but do call sometime. You don't want her to get the idea that you aren't interested, in friendship or romantic stuff.
Trip: Its only been a coupla days, don't read too much into it (if you haven't heard from them a couple of weeks from now you might be able to take it as a message). Reading too much into things is a BAD idea, and is something its easy to get caught up in (on which subject i think text messaging is one of the worst things that has ever happened to modern relationships- so few words, so many possible meanings...).
Also, remember some (though not all) women think the guy should do the phoning. I understand that you don't want to call too soon, but do call sometime. You don't want her to get the idea that you aren't interested, in friendship or romantic stuff.