The only things that connect to my Desktop Computer are my MacBook, my iPhone and my wife's iPad. She is 200 miles away at the moment.
The printer is a network printer connected to the router by ethernet. I have Printer Sharing on on the computers, but I probably
don't need that if it's not connected to a computer, do I?
File sharing is on. I assumed that this is necessary to allow the laptop to access the desktop files.
Scanner sharing is on on the Desktop. Scanner is connected to the desktop computer, so I am assuming that is needed so that the laptop can use the scanner.
Draytek is running WAP2
Nothing else has a wireless connection that I know of. No smart TV or games consoles in the house.
I'll look at the router and see what the log says. Hadn't thought of that........
The only point of weakness I can think of is the Parallels stuff on the laptop which is running Vista. I only run Vista for a couple of car maintenance manuals. I don't knowingly connect to the internet via Parallels and I have never (knowingly) downloaded anything to Vista from the net.
My Time Machine has started playing up. Now shut down.
The only unusual things I have done recently is to upgrade Aperture and merge the two Aperture libraries on the desktop and the laptop. Did that immediately before this problem. Had to leave both machines on all night, which I don't usually do.
And.... I found that Skype had automatically upgraded on the laptop (only) yesterday. Self upgrade now turned off. Could this have caused it? Laptop only had one user connected last night when shut down. Skype does not auto upgrade on the desktop
I have done four trial startups and shut downs today and no extra users reported.
Thanks for everyone's help so far.